Hi, I’m Iceta Life and Marketing & Social Media Coach. So as I sat in my car and wondered where my online business was going I felt stuck. I wondered how am I going to present myself, present this page. I got into my car picked up my kids and drove home, sat in my car and turn my audiobook to Your A Badass. Needless to say, she did have some badassery things to tell me but I was still…stuck.
I looked down on my phone and saw that my email was now over one thousand strong, okay let’s check those. My 30th email or so a fellow blogger, Melanie, who I really don’t ever read her stuff, I believed opted into her site for the freebie to see how she did her printable. Her intro read, how can I help you, and boy did I unload on her…. this is the EXACT message I sent to her…
“Oh boy you shouldn’t have asked, I am about to unload on you right about now!!!I am just starting a new blog and online success and business coaching business . That in of it self is already an issue how do I even title myself. Am I a life coach or am I a success coach cause for real I could be more successful but …. life I got a lot of that. Businsss Coaching, I am a super duper awesome marketing and social media content developer and I need to help other women be awesome in their business with my strategies, techniques and experiences. And I am trying to find a way to get that all out there.I am a mom of two going through a shitty separation that will no doubt lead to divorce. I am in debt, a little over weight and my refrigerator stopped working properly a year ago and I still haven’t bought one; not cause I’m lazy but I am chasing down two months of bills because my soon to be ex-husband decided that he didn’t want to contribute anymore.You see, I have this burning passion, this desire, this dream, this faith, this white hot fire that consumes me, that all I am doing online I will find a tribe of thousands/millions of women who will love everything I write, post and sell and be they will be that external family of women that I am looking for. I believe and know I was destined to be great! Not be broke or have a broken refrigerator but for right now I am literally sitting in my car, (that may be repossessed anyday) and I am onloading on a woman that I have never met, and by the way I only opted into your site for the freebie and have an inside knowledge of how to be online successful like you and others. Did I mention I was black and live in Jamaica, like I feel like I am fighting back all sorts of stereotypes just tying to live this dream.How can you me right now? Hmmm… I guess to just read my email, crack up a bit cause you have to admit I am witty and a little funny. Lol thanks though needed to see that email. Oh, by the way, I am usually very positive upbeat and driven but for the next hour, I want to just wallow!”
- Take care of yourself first and everything else will fall in its rightful place
- I have an abundance of money, love, acceptance and success around me that I tap into every…single…day
- and this I made up – Your BAE has all the attributes that you desire. he is the man you were meant to have, the universe has ordained it